We are at engineering level. We have been motivated hundreds
of times. What is motivation? It makes us hungry. Each motivation is liable for
making us hunger for doing or being something in our life. What we lack is we
don’t know how to eat when we are hungry. Trainers are followed by so
conventional things. They think we need inspiration. But, they are the one who is
supposed to train us, its by name. Trainer may teach us how to build a road
direct to the success but a genuine trainer will teach us how to set up wings
so we can fly anywhere.
It is by nature, human beings are conventional except some.
For an instance, if I fold my hands during delivering speech, it is depicted that
I am close, ignoring any feedback from audience. If my voice is shivered and I
am sweaty, they may think I’m frightful. Maybe it is because I am tired. All it
matters is confidence in speaking. Don’t look at audience eye if you stage
fright, people say. I say if you are strong in your topic, there is nothing in
this world you will be scared at. So the trick how to make your topic so
living, so deep you can go and dive in, I assure your fear will fade away. It
is the sentence of many motivators that they put some sweet lines and they say
why not start from today. But the real part of doing anything is its starting
can be easy but it needs a lot of efforts to continue. While in the day of
training, it’s so easy to do. From then, they fade away. We switch back to our
work. What I say is, don’t do anything new. Just change a bit of what you
already do.
Oops! I have a problem of vocabulary, what should I do?
Common question. Common answer is read newspaper, read novel. So, boring. But my
answer goes this way. You don’t have problem of vocab. You have a problem of
framing out sentence. So learn how to make your sentence sweet rather learning
dictionary. Suppose I have an ability to
write with both hands. But I don’t know what is that ability spelled. It is
ambidextrous. Why should I know this word? I would rather say I can write with
both hands.
It is by nature, after being stressed by work, we switch
back to entertainment. I say you will learn well in disguise. You will never
stop watching movies. You will never stop listening songs, watching TVs,
gossiping people. Why don’t you download the subtitle in English? Even if you
watch movie in your mother tongue language, watch them with English subtitle.
You will know how to convert into English. Listen music and practice lyrics in
karaoke. It would enhance/improve your reading and speaking skills plus fluency.
Practicing song would also make your intonation beautiful. Would this bore you
or reading books and newspaper would?
Back to few year, did you know smart phone is coming while
you were using java and Symbian phones? So can you be certain in 2 years the
scenario of engineering would remain stagnant. What if no interviews? What if
no recruitment? Our trainings would become vain if so. So leave that belief
where we might meet risk. Train yourself so that you can be open to the world.
You can be create your own company. Is it god hiring us? Why never told we can
be like them too? Saying that cooperate world is different. Is it spaceship?
Why to be ready? Answer is it is new for us. We need to be trained by rules and
how to adapt in there. My question is why can’t we make our college a cooperate
world? The rules for which we were trained for can be followed by now. Some
scare about group discussion. Make a group and discuss about project as if in
company meeting. Discussion in project will make you command over reasoning as
well as technical skills.
We are taught good about mannerism and courtesy. Being
human, we should show respect to our elders. But the fact is the world is full
of nuisance people. Showing respect is somehow associated with innocence. And
the fact is, the world of today has atomic space for innocent and naive people.
Always keep an attitude so no one can overwhelm you. Forget the formality. If
you follow it, you will be slow. Suppose you are student and there is offer
from outside for project and you need to be their ASAP, your arrival time would
be your priority. You need a permission from HOD and you see a lengthy queue of
students. Would you go by process? Write a letter. Explain it to class mentor,
sign it and what not. If I were you, I would do it smartly. I would go to my
favorite teacher, express how important it is. S/he would make a call to HOD.
HOD would prior teacher than student so s/he receive a call and I am done.
Circumstances may not always be easy like this but doing it smartly is demand
of today’s world. Traditional method is obsolete but most fool yet follow them.
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